Unleash Your Inner Hero:

Unconventional Wisdom for Leading and Redefining Fatherhood

I'm starting to feel like I get a lot of perspective from watching movies and tv shows lol.

I was watching Suits (I've Watched the series about 5 times now.) I know it's trending on Netflix but I'm an O.G.

I watched it when it aired back in 2011 . As I watched season 4, Mike one of the main characters goes against his mentor Harvey Specter. They have a Batman and Robin brotherly rivalry. In one part it looks as though Harvey is losing to Mike.

Key thing to note about Mike. He has a photographic memory like something out of this world. But we quickly learn that knowledge without experience is a handicap nonetheless .

Mike loses to Harvey, because he lacked experience. Now it got me thinking about my own life and how I consume knowledge like a fat kid loves cake lol.

But you have to set yourself up to use that knowledge. I know you may have heard the statement people are destroyed for their lack of knowledge. Hosea 4:6

But their is another quote from the bible that always sticks with me. Faith without works is dead. Now I want you to do the reading yourself so I wont tell you what it says. I’ll tell you where to find it. James :14-26

Here are some rules I’ve implemented to my core pillars of life. 

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12 Rules To Live By

  • Stay focused on God and keep Him at the head of your life.

  • A leader, a king, a man always takes care of his family and knows there is no "I" in team.

  • Eliminate distractions, stay focused, and dedicated to your purpose. That's where all your power lies.

  • Be able to understand differences and be okay with the statement "agreeing to disagree."

  • What's meant for you is meant for you. Never look to man for anything; focus on God and self. Everything you need is already provided.

  • Owe nothing to any man (this is biblical, Romans 13:8). Loving your fellow man, now that's law, and you will be rewarded by it.

  • Be content with what you have. As easily as you can make the money, they can take the money.

  • Give advice based on your perspective and experience. Your family needs tools they can use.

  • Always be an example. They're always watching.

  • Never let anything come before the family.

  • Trust the journey and the process. You can do anything, but you can't do everything.

  • Family is always the priority. Knowledge is power, but it's nothing without action. Attack the day.

The rules you follow, will will help set standards for yourself. They allow you to have base line on how people around you will treat you . This will help you establish boundaries.

Define who you are

You need to make sure people know the A.B.C's of you. In the movie Jerry Maguire, Tom Cruises Character reminds Cuba Gooding Jr .Why did he start to play the game?

Funny part is Cuba forgot WHY he was playing . He was confused ,argued and just gave clown blue pill energy .

But then something clicked, a light bulb went off and made him come to his senses accepting Toms help .

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This is great scene in Jerry Maguire

Why was it important?

Reminder ** establish a stand and make people understand the A>B>C’s of you.

Here are examples of how I let my clients and people in my life understand my standards

Standards I've set for myself with my clients that can be applied to any industry.

  1. I don’t take meetings I set them.

  2. My respect isn't demanded it's earned.

  3. Don’t chase anything lay foundations and it will come.

  4. Number 4 is for people that know a and b ( Be respectful & authentic)

Healing Wisdom: Embrace the Pain, Repair, and Solidify Your True Self

You can't numb the pain you have to repair it. Solidifying who you are is all a part of the process .

It's what every great hero has to do . Yes you are the hero of your journey. But you're not alone .

Tap in because that's where true power comes from .

God ,The Most High, Source , Allah or Spirit whatever is trending lol .(There is only one true Creator)  It's undeniable !!.

This is why after a certain amount of solitude and working on self. Join a team, build a community, and find a small group for accountability.

Now being a family man you are the leader. Take the reins and be the leader that they need. It will be hard, disciplined work.

 Requiring:

  • Reading 

  • Exercise, 

  • Mental fortitude.

You need to be around like minded individuals. ( Warrior walks in March)

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